Well, it’s been a long time since I’ve posted anything of substance here. The purpose of this blog was to document my path but the path got derailed. Not badly mind you, Cupcake and I are still together and madly in love but the Dom/sub part of our relationship fell to the way side. To make a long story short she wasn’t feeling it anymore. In her words, she didn’t feel submissive to me anymore.
Quite a bit of time has passed since then. I’ve never really forgot about that side of things though and she hasn’t either. It’s time to begin a new and see where we end up. Now however we’re going to explore it on our own paths so we can figure out what it is we want and why it didn’t work before. It might end up we become Dom/sub again or it might end up we forget about it and carry on as a normal couple with slightly kinky sex.
I’m not going to talk extensively about what she’s doing. I might make a few posts about it just to get emotions off my chest but that’s her story not mine. I hope she finds the answers she’s looking for. For my part I want to explore what it is I want and gain more experience in the process. I want to be the best Dom I can be.
We’re now in a semi-open relationship so we can explore what it is we want. I’ve decided I’m going to dominate wherever I can and figure out what works and what doesn’t and I’m going to share it here so i remember it. Sex doesn’t really enter into this for me surprisingly. I just want to dominate and learn, and maybe have some fun on the way.